WhatsApp Wrapped for couples
A year of texting each other, turned into something you can actually look at together.
Most of a relationship’s daily texture lives in a chat that never gets looked at as a whole — good morning texts, arguments that resolved themselves, thousands of small check-ins. This turns that chat into a dozen slides: who texts first, who double-texts, how fast you reply to each other, and a asymmetry score that tries to answer "who’s more into whom" honestly rather than flatteringly.
- You suspect one of you texts first more often, but neither of you actually knows.
- Long-distance stretches or busy weeks make it feel like the relationship went quiet — was it really that long?
- You want something to actually post about your relationship that isn’t a staged photo.
The asymmetry score
Four measures — who starts the day, who double-texts, who writes more, who replies faster — combined into one honest score, with a wide "dead even" band so it doesn’t manufacture drama out of noise.
Streaks and silences
Your longest run of consecutive texting days, and your longest quiet stretch — plus who was the one to break it.
Signature words
The word each of you uses disproportionately more than the other — nicknames and pet names show up here more often than anything else.
A share-ready receipt
The final slide is a full recap designed to be screenshotted and posted — every number stays as counts and statistics, never the chat text itself.
Frequently asked questions
Will this tell us who’s more into who?+
It’ll give you an honest, four-part texting-behaviour score — most couples land close to dead even, and the tool says so rather than inventing a winner.
Does the other person need to be there when I make it?+
No — you only need your own export of the chat, made from your own phone. Nothing is sent to them and nothing requires their participation to generate.
Related terms
- Texting asymmetry scoreFour measures combined into one score from −1 to +1 describing which side is putting in more of the texting effort — with a wide "dead even" band on purpose.
- Double-textingSending two or more messages in a row with no reply in between — a single run, however long, counts once.
- Who starts the conversationWhich person sends the first message of the day, tallied across every active day — one of the plainer signals of who’s reaching out.
- Texting streakConsecutive calendar days with at least one message from either person — one text is enough to keep it alive.